'Believe in Yourself'
Domestic Violence.
Happens way too often.
Not a pretty thought.
Violence of any type is unforgiving to me in this fishlife I live now. My little fishlips are going to town on this subject – I have a bit of firsthand knowledge about DV.
Once long ago I lived with a man who had a short temper. Verbal abuse was the mainstay, kicking or throwing objects came later, and a few times I got to experience the threat & action of bodily harm.
His being an alcoholic and own abusive youth blurred what were healthy relationship boundaries.
I got out after realizing my life was more important than anything he could offer in marriage. I’ve been divorced for over 20 years and I don’t look back at all. I made the decision that Domestic Violence or violence/abuse of any type was not going to be part of my life and would support anyone else looking to leave an abusive relationship.
I now live with a man who thinks the world of me in a healthy loving manner. He is my biggest supporter of all that I do and encourages me daily!
Violence does not need to happen. Folks can live without any type of violence or abuse in their life.
October is Domestic Violence Awareness month.
I have donated two of my photographs for a upcoming auction; plus one Mixed Media artwork for a public show speaking out against Domestic Violence.
A few sites that can help one learn and find help for Domestic Violence:
The Domestic Violence Awareness Project - http://dvam.vawnet.org/
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence -
http://www.ncadv.org/